October 31, 2008

PaPa Away From Home - Day 5

Baby Chloe says:

PaPa, Please come home now. MaMa is very sad. Come home and rub rub MaMa's feet and she will be fine again. PaPa, Baby Chloe misses you a lot!!

October 30, 2008

PaPa Away From Home - Day 4

Just when i thought I miss PaPa less, I received an sms from PaPa telling me how much he misses MaMa and he can't wait to be home to be with me and Baby Chloe, and uncontrollably the watery eyes reminded me how much I miss PaPa. Two more nights to go.

During my Pregnancy period, PaPa is being very caring and nice to MaMa. Send me to work every day, pick me up from work for swimming, Yoga classes, dinner. Sometimes, when he is free, he will come to office to pick me up for LUNCH. Practically, we are seeing each other for more than 12 hours a day, and he made me feel so secure and protected. Maybe it is because of Baby Chloe, he unknowingly shows more care and loves to me. However, I would like to believe that it is 50% for me and 50% for Baby Chloe. Because of Baby Chloe, PaPa & MaMa's bonding become stronger day by day. Perhaps this is what we called FAMILY and I am really building up a family together with the one that I love. Thank you, PaPa.

Now, I am on PaPa's bed with Baby Chloe blogging... wish you are here with me to nag me to hug me to love me to massage me to kiss me..... Miss you.

October 29, 2008

PaPa Away from Home - Day 3

This is the third night that hubby is not at home with me and baby, getting used to it and not crying anymore. HaHa, Shameful, it took me two days to stop missing him so much. I cannot imagine life without him.

As usual, I got up at 7.30am and prepared myself to work. I had French Toast & a cup of Hot Soya Drink at home and then went to work together with mum in one car.

Wen called and came to have vegetarian lunch with me, haha, poor Wen. I think she did not enjoy the vege lunch so much. I didn't know whether I did the right thing to tell her that i very much dislike her critics towards me and baby. I don't really understand why is she always making fun of baby and say something bad about baby every single time that we see each other. Guess what, she did it again today, I couldn't control myself but to open up and let her know that I really mind. But I must clarify that I wasn't angry all these while, it just made me feel uncomfortable. I totallty understand She didn't mean to hurt me or baby, just that she is so used to talking to me like that. Maybe she is right, I am over-reacting/sensitive. Well, my mum told me that this is so called the nature of mum to protect baby. Hope she's not angry or feel bad after what I told her my feelings.

After lunch, I received a sms from hubby to greet me and baby morning, told us that he spent 40 franc to buy milk, yogurt, bread, fruit, chips & juices. This is so him!! He described how beautiful & tranquil in that little Basel town and once again he told me and baby that he wants to bring us there next time. I also received a called from my Father-in-law asking me did hubby contact me? Have they arrived Basel? I felt so proud and happy at that moment and wanted to tell him that "hey hey, I have already received THREE sms from him since he arrived Zurich, didn't you?" Haha, but I didn't do that!!! I just told him that I JUST received a sms from hubby and that he was preparing to leave for the exhibition. Immediately after the phone call, I sms hubby to at least send his parents a sms to let them know that everything is fine. Because I want baby to do this to PaPa & MaMa next time!

Had rice & spinach for dinner and orange as dessert. Yum Yum. After that, I did all the usual thing, shower, apply cream, watch Astro and here I am blogging, hopefully dar dar can get to free WiFi zone and read my blog.

Dar, u know what? Baby knows how to hiccup even though she's still in the womb. How amazing. Quickily come back and I will let dar dar feels how is baby hiccup feels like, it rythmic. So cute.

You must be thinking usually I would blog with Baby Chloe's perspective and why not this time.
1) I want to write down how I feel about Wen's critics and I want to clarify I was and never angry with her critics.
2) I want to let dar dar knows, other than Baby Chloe misses you a lot. Me, your wife, your darling misses you a lot too.

3 more nights to go....

October 28, 2008

PaPa Away From Home - Day 2

During working hour, MaMa was occupied with her work and didn't have much time to think of PaPa. Fut her to that, PaPa is getting smarter and smarter with technology and Internet. He was able to locate Free WiFi at Dubai Airport and got online with his Communicator. MaMa and PaPa manage to msn each other for a while in the morning.

PaPa should be on the way to Basel from Zurich Station. MaMa checked online, it is only an hour ride from Zurich to Basel. PaPa sms MaMa and told MaMa that it is very beautiful scenery and he will try his best to take some good pictures to show MaMa & Baby.

Yoga Class was cancelled and MaMa was home early. This is the second night without PaPa at home. MaMa had dinner alone while watching Astro, browsing all the channels like what PaPa always does. After dinner, MaMa went straight to shower, had her hair treatment done, applied stretch mark creams on her thighs and tummy. The stretch marks are getting more and more visible but because PaPa is not around, MaMa didn't care much about the stretch mark. She quickly got everything settled and quickly got online to write to PaPa. Hopefully, PaPa has the access of free Internet in Basel.

Oh, PaPa, Wow Wow is in the nursery room with us. Don't worry, PaPa. Baby Chloe will make sure Wow Wow doesn't sleep on your pillow la.

MaMa & Baby Chloe is lying on PaPa's bed now. Missing him a lot....

No Driver for Yoga Class Today

Today, PaPa is not here to pick us up for Yoga Class at Bangsar. MaMa has to drive herself there. And now, MaMa can't complain that PaPa's late, it is all in MaMa's control now. But Baby Chloe prefers PaPa to send us there. Miss you, PaPa.

PaPa Away From Home - Day 1

PaPa is at KLIA now on the way to Basel, Switzerland, for the World Didactic Exhibition and he's coming back on this Sunday. PaPa wanted to bring us a long but Baby Chloe is not eligible fly yet and MaMa has to stay back to take care of Baby Chloe. MaMa & Baby Chloe just finished talking with PaPa on the phone while he was walking to the boarding gate. MaMa & Baby Chloe miss PaPa a lot, without PaPa here in the nursery, everything seems unusual. First, Can't hear Papa talking to Baby Chloe, can't feel Papa poking MaMa's tummy with his mustache to kiss Baby Chloe, can't feel the giant hand stroking MaMa's Rounded Tummy.

This night, MaMa feels so lonely. Noone massages MaMa's cramped feet, Noone gives MaMa's water to drink, Noone breathes at MaMa's Face, Noone exercise lamaze breathing technique with MaMa, noone does kegel exercise with MaMa, Noone nags MaMa to apply nipple cream, Noone switches off the light for MaMa, Noone kisses MaMa Goodnight...

MaMa & Baby Chloe miss PaPa so much already. Tonight PaPa's not here but only MaMa's "tear of missing PaPa" accompany us to sleep. Gosh... 5 more nights to go.

October 18, 2008

Who's PMS

18th October 2008 - Gong Gong's 50th Birthday.

It was GongGong's Birthday but he was not around, he went to GuangZhou China for Exhibition. So, there is no celebration for GongGong. But MaMa & PaPa & Baby Chloe bought him a Tommy Polo-Tee as birthday Present.

But anyway, this is not what Chloe wants to blog about. That was a horrible day for Baby Chloe. I was in the dilemma and dunno who to side. PaPa was acting a little weird and MaMa reacted very emotionally that day.

We woke up at about 9am in the morning, and MaMa was preparing herself for Yoga Class at 9.30am. Followed by PaPa, everything went okay. PaPa agreed to sent MaMa to Yoga and MaMa agreed to let PaPa changed the Stroller at PJ. For some reasons, before PaPa and MaMa were able to step out of the house, it was already 9.30am. Baby Chloe could see PaPa was trying to rush, shifted the bulky stroller and car seats to his Perdana. Obviously, MaMa could not make it to the class and frustration was noticeable on her frowny face. PaPa is never a "Morning" Person plus the rush, he was also engaged into his fury and started raising his voice : " COME LA! WHAT ARE YOU DOING THERE? " MaMa was already unhappy plus the "SHOUTING", immediately she burst into tears and started yelling at PaPa also. Oh My God. Luckily, somehow because of Baby Chloe, PaPa managed to "give in" to MaMa with his "attitude", and MaMa manage to accept PaPa with her "tolerance". Since we were all awake and dressed up so PaPa decided to bring us to La Bodega in Bangsar for breakfast. Everything went alright unitl....

Because of PaPa's persistency of changing the Stroller and Car Seat from Mocha to Red, PaPa went to Bambino at SS2. I remembered it was about 1pm, and MaMa advised PaPa to call first before heading to Bambino. However, PaPa assumed that Mr. Tham should be done with his lunch at 1PM. When we arrived, the Owner of Bambina Mr. Tham was not at his shop, and he was actually at his lunch somwhere. We waited for half an hour, still no sign of Mr. Tham's return. The antenatal class was about to start at 2pm. At about 1.40pm, PaPa decided to leave for the antenatal class. Maybe Baby Chloe is being a little unfair here to give such a comment, but I feel PaPa was a little OVER persistent and mismanaged his timing, especially knowing that KL is a place where traffic can never be predicted. We ended up slow traffic at Federal highway & Jalan Ampang. *sigh* Late again. MaMa once again put up her "Roasted" face with the aid of the high temperature outside heated the whole atmosphere in the car. PaPa was swearing and MaMa's tolerance level broke finallly and ended up "BANG BANG BANG" "BONG BONG BONG" and "PING PIANG PING PIANG".

I couldn't do much since I AM STILL in MaMa's tummy. We arrived Gleneagle at 2.30pm, the class as you would have expected was already started. PaPa was trying to communicate with furious MaMa with his "attitude" but I think MaMa expecting a little more than a communication with "attitude". Again, i dunno how and what happened. Something broke their ice again and they started talking to each other and as loving as nothing had happened.
*Sigh* It didn't last even long enough for Baby Chloe to digest, and again "BANG BANG BANG" "BONG BONG BONG" occured. Gosh. What happened again? PaPa wanted to drink (beer) & MaMa wanted to go home after dinner. But PaPa, this is definitely your fault. Why? MaMa suggested to call Uncle Jason & Uncle Cain out for a drink, but PaPa insisted that he wanted to send Baby Chloe & MaMa home so that PaPa could come out alone to have a drink. MaMa & Baby Chloe volunteered to accompany PaPa but PaPa rejected. Certainly, I knew It was not PaPa's intention. PaPa was afraid that MaMa & Chloe were to tired to go out late a night to drink with PaPa. The argument went on for quite a while and noone is wiling to give in this time.

PaPa said " I don't have my own time anymore. " MaMa said "At least you manage to go out have fun with your friend once a week, and I was prisoned for almost 8 months with my heavy tummy with restriction to do whatever I feel like doing" PaPa said " I have no friends and life anymore, I just need a timeout!" MaMa went on "When did I not give you time, you had your fun time drinking once in a while, did I even complain to you even though i have to stucked at home with boredom?" It went on and on and on.

*Phew" Luckily, Uncle Cain called and the fight stopped. Uncle Cain & Aunty Kee Foon was coming to join us for a drink at Bangsar. AGAIN!!!! PaPa & MaMa returned to normal and naturally did not mention anything about who's right or who's wrong?

Aiyoyo, it was a Parent Fight Package, 3 "meals" a day. Who's PMS ???? MaMa or PaPa?

October 17, 2008

PaPa is Late Again!

PAPA, it's already 6.42pm la, and you are not here to pick us up yet. Baby Chloe and MaMa angry!! PaPa makes MaMa lonely la. Luckily MaMa has Chloe to accompany her, notti PaPa. Baby Chloe scolds you a!

October 16, 2008

Moody MaMa

Baby Chloe could feel MaMa is a little moody today. What's wrong, MaMa? Are you sick? Are you tire of the heavy tummy weight? Or is it because of heavy load of works? I am sorry la, MaMa. Today, Baby Chloe tried my best not to move so much to make you uncomfortable. Please don't be moody, Baby Chloe loves MaMa.

MaMa always says Happy People are the most beautiful people in the world. MaMa is a beautiful woman and MaMa must keep yourself happy at all times. Baby Chloe wants to be like you, the happiest girl in the world together with MaMa & PaPa. There is always ups and downs, face the ups ecstatically and face the downs positively, right?

MaMa says : MaMa's unhappiness disappears naturally whenever MaMa thinks of PaPa & Baby Chloe. Tomorrow is another new day! Oh ya, Baby Chloe reminds PaPa to pump his nasal spray and antibiotic cream Tonight. Notti PaPa had skipped a day treatment. Baby Chloe scolds PaPa tonight for being Notti la.

October 14, 2008

PaPa's Crooked Nose

Yesterday, PaPa & MaMa brought Chloe to Dr. Ravi for a health check. Dr. Ravi said everything is going very well with Baby Chloe la. PaPa , MaMa, don't worry la. Baby Chloe is going to be healthy and happy too.

After visiting Dr. Ravi, PaPa went to Dr. Koay, a ENT Specialist, for a checkup. PaPa's nose was bleeding the other day. Maybe it was just "heaty", but MaMa said just to be sure PaPa must go for a checkup. PaPa's ears are fine but Dr. Koay said Ears are engineered to clean its wax by itself, so he advised PaPa not to clean the ear wax using cotton butt. It is a huge mistake. So, now Baby Chloe learns something. Cotton Butt is not designed to clean ear wax and it is best to leave it alone. And then, Dr. Koay checked Papa's nose, he said PaPa's nose is slightly crooked, the right side of the nose is narrower as compared to the left side. Because of this, PaPa's right nose is always blocked. And Dr. Koay said PaPa Nose is red & sore due to what we chinese calle "heatiness".

PaPa notti la!!! Don't eat so much fried food and drink more water. Baby Chloe scolds you la. Then, a check on PaPa's Throat and it is fine except a little sore & red.

In conclusion, PaPa's ENT are fine, only minor problem on PaPa's nose. Dr. Koay gave him a 5 days treatment, it should be treated at the end of the treatment. PaPa is a good boy la, PaPa asked MaMa to pump the Nasal Spray and apply antibiotic on PaPa's nose according to Dr. Koay's instruction.

PaPa, GOOD BOY!

October 8, 2008

PaPa & MaMa

Chloe can't wait to meet my loving PaPa & MaMa. I wish they are always so loving and we are always a happy family.